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Universally Acceptable Behavior 4: ROLES

10/11/2025

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Fourth post in the series, this time about roles and another movie as promised :)
When "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly" are no longer three people, but three of your own states – on drama and creative triangles.
Once you've gotten the hang of choosing direction in life and it feels like 2+2, you have your map, you're learning to understand your dreams, you can take a look at what roles you take on in your daily life. Are you like a Western wild gunman on the loose :D or a somewhat more civilized version. It doesn't matter at all if you're good one day, bad or ugly another... the important thing is whether those roles are that childish or a bit more mature.
Right now, I just remembered that Chat GPT, since no AI is moral—they're just programmed to be used, which isn't always moral—knew I was doing another post related to a movie, so it wrote it for me right away instead of me... Which it absolutely shouldn't have done. Sometimes less is more, but... The essence of this is probably that I need to step back from AI suggestions and remember how these triangles really work in my life and how I manage to recall that the "good guys vs bad guys" game is so appealing... and so lame at the same time... And in its finale, you end up hiding behind the "ugly guy's" mask, at least that's how it turns out for me... And everything sinks into the swamps. So over time, I noticed that no matter how hard it is sometimes, and energy drained to hell knows where... it's possible to just stay in the Creative Triangle dynamic, then the whole mess subsides and becomes not so big or not that relevant.
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Why did I choose this movie? No clue at all... but echoes from watching this movie in the past came back to me with those good and bad characters... and then ugly fit perfectly into its place... Where he no longer have those questioning eyes, who's to blame for my situation? when will SOMEONE rescue me, well, I don't understand?, but instead asks: what can I create?
The good guy's character no longer needs to save anyone or clash with someone to stop their evil plans :D Well, and the bad guy, protagonist no longer needs to carry out endless horrific plans or attack, hurt, and so on.
The victim becomes a creator, a student; the rescuer – a trainer, therapist; the persecutor – a growth provocateur, a challenger.
An absolutely simple trick when the matrix of values gets stuck, crashes, gets tangled, or disappointment creeps in from some events and such. Yes, the awful feeling and confusion remain... but you can move, you can move. Breathe, reconnect, start, and go. Again.

And let the good luck🤞🤞🤞 guide you on the way, mein Freund 🤝🤝🤝
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