Universally Acceptable Behavior 3: DIRECTIONS

I really don't know what I'm writing, or for whom, or why... But... since I touched on goals again, I dive into values too now. This time not seriously, but in game form, because I'm starting to annoy myself with all those spiritual matrices, so now maybe we can swing to a playful format, so it doesn't look like I know too little – because only then everything has that Brussels Parliament seriousness... The more you know, the more you play ;D maybe someone will come and hammer you with the "you're an idiot" phrase while you at play and remind you of the Dunning-Kruger effect :D And then you can't stop staring at a person's completely exhibitionistic draw of self-portrait just before your eyes... I don't quite grasp why such episodes freeze me so much... But they stun me to the point of jaw-dropping :) Roughly it seems to me like... "woooooow, I got a pet and it's even a human" (and though my mind boils: "don't you have enough of them already??"), I just shout: "what a truly wonderful day!!!" (just the other day 🤦‍♂️)

Let's get back to the matrix, well, values... Why as a matrix?? Because there are endless values, endless and they all always point in one and the same direction, in my opinion, - the Absolute, the phenomenon embodying all virtues completely, and people call it God... God is good (aka virtuous) ALL THE TIME :)) isn't that the code among believers?? God is good... (finish the sentence, and they'll accept you ALL THE TIME). But... since we're still just humans, we can choose which of those virtues to follow as directions toward Him – the Source, the Absolute.. like road signs so we don't veer off somewhere else. And the problem is that choosing values is incredibly complicated... because there are millions of them, from love and truth to?? aesthetics and diplomacy, for example... So it boils down to a matrix... the entire code is just His reflection... and that digital rain is this world should reflect His world, but really is just a pretty crooked copy... Because only He can be influenced by all possible virtues and values at once. Something like that.. let's get back to the matrix, I created this mini word game, like those on spiritual guru pages :D So, if it's too hard to choose, just glance at this word puzzle and jot down the first 3 words you see and stick to them. That's the start of life guided by certain values that should lead you to yourself, improvement, and there is happiness on a way and so on, you know.

But really, everything is a bit different... Because distilling your own values is more complicated. You have to "wait for them" until they pop out of that letter and word rain swirling inside you day in and day out, and you realize that right now you have to stick to exactly these. That's the authentic way to select, but, I repeat, if it's too complicated, no time, no mood, no nothing at all, you can pull a few from any text and if they stick, then stick to them like signs.
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Example: In this word game I created, I found – romanticism, kindness, strength. OK So right now, I'll try to act so that my actions are romantic, kind, and strong, or so that I myself am – romantic, kind, and strong. That doesn't mean I have to align perfectly in every step, always... but I'll keep them in mind until it gradually becomes a way of life. And that's it.

P.S.: if you're afraid of getting stuck and need variety (it happens), don't need to worry. Those values "burn out", especially if they're not quite yours or don't fit the current life phase... then replace them with more aligned ones and you're done. The important thing is to stick to a few, not always choose new ones. There you go.
Everything is simpler than you think, buddy 🐝🐝🐝 And don't stop laughing, even if the neighbors upstairs start stomping with their dissatisfied little feet. 🤣🤣🤣 Grumpily..

And that's not all... We'd need to dive deeper into roles too, not just directions, because that can shatter any chosen system of sticking to those directions. Like a bug...
In the next post, I'll discuss the phenomenon that's crucial in any life dynamic, and which somehow turned out like from a movie too—a really cool movie, just not the Matrix anymore.